You're watching tv, you have homework pending, you forgot to plan a gift for your friend's bday the next day, you had a normal day at work or college, something nice for dinner,a lil argument with your dad over how much time you spend on your phone, half of your new year resolutions are long gone, you're feeling too lazy to clean up your study table or hard drive .You had a brief hi hello with some of your buddies. A namaste to some uncle aunty. You have some friends whom you have'nt met in ages, and some whom you meet everyday.
Pretty normal.
Here's something you only learn after a blow. A shock.
Sudden incidents that are irreversible.
And they leave you with lifelong regrets. They are depressing because you were too ignorant or lazy or easygoing when there was time and now you can't do anything about it.
Anyways, what might cheer you(in this case,me) up is life's still good. To do justice with it, you have to have a goal,a set of good habits, good friends, good food, and a frequent smile!
I used to say forgive and forget, but this recent incident that occurred made me understand that it's not that easy a task! Letting go is super tough!
I had never imagined something of this kind could happen,but it did. Loss of a childhood friend.
But some people showed amazing strength and I learnt how strong we all are.
And you have to move on no matter how hard it is! Because you can't sulk n cry forever.
Questions like why did this happen,keep popping in our heads. But duh! No luck at getting an answer good enough!
So life gives us these bumps and jerks so that we don't become static and lazy. Good ones make it memorable and bad ones add experience.
To top it off, don't take anything for granted, from your parents to siblings to friends to teachers.
Try not to hurt anyone. Even people you hate and you can't stand.
Have respect for everything you own and be grateful for how lucky you are. Our stupid problems are nothing compared to what some people go through.
Live every moment, whether it is a boring lecture or a bus ride or a bad movie or a family event.
And when you understand that life is precious, you start living it to the fullest :)
Tadaaaaaaa
Pretty normal.
Here's something you only learn after a blow. A shock.
Sudden incidents that are irreversible.
And they leave you with lifelong regrets. They are depressing because you were too ignorant or lazy or easygoing when there was time and now you can't do anything about it.
Anyways, what might cheer you(in this case,me) up is life's still good. To do justice with it, you have to have a goal,a set of good habits, good friends, good food, and a frequent smile!
I used to say forgive and forget, but this recent incident that occurred made me understand that it's not that easy a task! Letting go is super tough!
I had never imagined something of this kind could happen,but it did. Loss of a childhood friend.
But some people showed amazing strength and I learnt how strong we all are.
And you have to move on no matter how hard it is! Because you can't sulk n cry forever.
Questions like why did this happen,keep popping in our heads. But duh! No luck at getting an answer good enough!
So life gives us these bumps and jerks so that we don't become static and lazy. Good ones make it memorable and bad ones add experience.
To top it off, don't take anything for granted, from your parents to siblings to friends to teachers.
Try not to hurt anyone. Even people you hate and you can't stand.
Have respect for everything you own and be grateful for how lucky you are. Our stupid problems are nothing compared to what some people go through.
Live every moment, whether it is a boring lecture or a bus ride or a bad movie or a family event.
And when you understand that life is precious, you start living it to the fullest :)
Tadaaaaaaa
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